Make "Thank you" cards with your family for your family. Each family member is assigned one other family member to thank. Each only does one thank you note, but they are to put their heart into it.
Example: Chelle to Peter: "You are my pride and joy. I love your ethical nature and your commitment to your country. After several deployments I can only describe my love and pride as "boundless'."
Decorate the cards and exchange on Christmas Day!